How to make a Friend a Foe and/or vice versa. Simple. 1. Choose something you really, really want to accomplish. Lose weight, exercise regularly, save money, etc. 2. Choose an ‘enemy’ … a Foe. Hitler, Klu-Klux-Klan, pollution-ers, etc. 3. Pledge some money TO them if you don’t achieve your goal. Now, is your … Read more
To sail you rely on the wind. If the wind blows North and you want to go South you must work at it. You must adjust the sail to basically zig – zag your way. And complain about your ‘bad’ luck. If the wind blows East or West it’s easier to ‘grab’ the wind. And … Read more
We tend to teach /learn too quickly. We try to Plant the seed without first Tilling the soil. We fault ourselves for not having instant learning. We don’t forgive our mistakes, or worse, we do forgive them! Which simply reinforces that they are mistakes. Which they aren’t. They are the planting before tilling. … Read more
Which movie to see? Which book to read next? These give variety. However they are simply variations of the same decision you made long ago. OK, so? Possibly you are somewhat bored. (Or getting there.) Consider changing the actual Category. A movie instead of a book. Exercise instead of a movie. Get mad instead … Read more
This is an ugly one! Because I remind you nothing happens unless you make it happen. Even Instant coffee – with 99% of the Process pre done – still has to be drunk by you. Health drinks, too. The doctor puts the cast on your arm but YOU do the healing. YOU must make … Read more
Your subconscious mind automatically looks at many solutions to find the correct one for a particular problem. OK, so? A person with one foot in a bear trap discards all solutions that don’t get them out of that trap. They mark those solutions as no good, non-effective, useless, etc. Once out they think they have … Read more