When you run a Sprint you better not make any mistakes. Even one tenth of a second off and you might well lose. Many believe life is a Sprint race, so the moment they make a couple of mistakes they realize they won’t win and change races. Again. Ok, so? Well, consider Adds based kidding … Read more
We all understand the idea of bribery. It helps smooth the way, Grease the wheels, Oil the machinery, etc. Ok so? Well, there are many, many other ways to do this. A smile, A joke, A rest break, A change of subject, etc. All of these help smooth the way. If you have … Read more
People just out of a bad relationship look carefully at each new date for signs of what happened with them. That makes no one comfortable. It feels like just one wrong word would end everything. OMG here I go again! Realize this, lower your expectations and let things develop. Oh, you’ll still date some … Read more
Well, that’s the ideal. Actually people are more often one of these: Ready, Fire, Aim Wants: Applause & Excitement Needs: Inspiration & Incentives If this is you, try to: Count to 10 before acting. Ready, Are-you-sure? Wants: Attention & Feel Good Needs: Specific Goals & Assurance If this is you, try to: Set & … Read more
Con (as in Pro & Con) means ‘against’ Fusion means to join, become part of. So to be in Confusion means to not be able to join the new part with the old. The ‘old’ is everything you have ever seen /heard /done. It has formed a bunch of conclusions. When the new input … Read more
Doing something you don’t want to do? Can’t stop? Then don’t stop. Stop trying the on/off ‘switch’, it obviously doesn’t work for you. Imagine instead you have a Volume Control. Turn down the volume. But not all the way. That would be the same as an on/off switch. Just turn the Volume … Read more