All too often I forget people have their own ideas, their own life, their own … everything. That’s when Me Messages come into play, If you don’t like what people say to you then rather than attack or keep silent, try a Me Message: “I feel bad /hurt about what you are saying … Read more
Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. “Am I fat?” “Am I ugly?” “Are we almost there?” “Will it hurt?” These are easy answers, …when you lie. What about ‘fat & ugly’ in a business sense. Now you have to compare … Read more
Red scarves don’t bother me. OK. If you say so. But why don’t you say Red scarves don’t AMUSE me. Well, because they don’t. When someone protests that something does NOT … why bring it up in the first place? I gave a lecture on UFOs at a University. I came in late and pretended … Read more
Don’t deny you are anything. This includes: Bad /jealous /angry etc. Just realize that that’s a millionth of what your total is. You are probably also hungry, sad, worried, happy etc. If I see one black dot on the wall do I call the entire wall black. Only when I take a magnifying … Read more
Wow! What happened here? Well, as you can see, I have water all over the floor of my recreation room. Can you help me clean it up? Sure. And he starts mopping the water. Then he notices the tap is still running in the sink. And the sink is overflowing. Hey, shouldn’t you close … Read more
Just imagine you somehow get a goldmine all to yourself. It’s yours. Completely. Annnd, it has a lot of gold in it, just waiting to be mined. How long do you wait until you start to mine it. How many breaks do you take. Remember, each time you stop you no longer ‘make money’. … Read more