How hard we work planning a Party! And really pay attention to every detail. Almost cold and calculated. Yet we have fun when it’s happening. OK, sooo? Well you can actually ‘plan’ your fun /happiness too. Without throwing a Party. When you feel low /depressed etc. Simply think of three different things … Read more
This formula applies to many, many things. To completely stop (…smoking, biting your nails, snacking, etc.) without side effects: 1 Do not (smoke, snack, etc.) before 6 am. 2 Every Sunday, extend this by 15 minutes. So week two, you can (smoke, etc.) after 6:15 am. And so on, every week 15 minutes later. (Not 30 … Read more
Which is better: 1 Dependent or 2 Independent? How about 3 Inter-dependent You don’t have to be 1 because you think: If I’m not 1 my only option is 2 There is a third, all inclusive option: Obedience or else Anarchy? 3 Participation Competition or else Defeat? 3 Co-operation Hard Work or … Read more
Hitler walks down the street in New York City and says “Follow me!” A few people do. Some yell obscenities at him. Lots take his picture with their phone /camera. Some call the news desks to sell the story, however most continue on their way content to watch it on the evening news. The … Read more
To properly defend yourself, you prepare for all contingencies. You do all you possibly can, ahead of time. . And then one of two things happens: 1. Because you are so very heavy with all the preparations, mental, emotional or physical – imagine wearing full gas, biological, radiation & armor protection – you can’t … Read more
“Oh, you are so very cruel saying things like that!” As she stormed away. That evening I told my wife the things she said that day. And she told her husband the things I said that day. “Ah, you know you did the right thing.” said my wife. “Well, an honest person tells you things … Read more