Everyone has an Opinion. Opinions are not Facts, obviously. Yet most things we think /act on are Opinions. OK, so? When you have conflict within yourself verify: Is this a Fact or an Opinion? Then act accordingly. Why validate Opinions as if they are Facts … especially when things go wrong. With others: … Read more
Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. “Am I fat?” “Am I ugly?” “Are we almost there?” “Will it hurt?” These are easy answers, …when you lie. What about ‘fat & ugly’ in a business sense. Now you have to compare … Read more
If I am not flexible then I must restrict you to what I can respond to. I do this by: Finishing your sentences for you (but my way!) Deliberately mis-understanding you on certain issues. Mis hearing your words. Acting confused about obvious things. When you see others do this, realize they are simply … Read more
Parents in China are all extremely well respected. And obeyed. After all, they know best. Years and years of experience, etc. Their economy is growing 3 times faster than almost all other economies. Sure they are approximately at our 1960 level. But at 3 times the speed, each 10 years they grow 30 years. … Read more
Red scarves don’t bother me. OK. If you say so. But why don’t you say Red scarves don’t AMUSE me. Well, because they don’t. When someone protests that something does NOT … why bring it up in the first place? I gave a lecture on UFOs at a University. I came in late and pretended … Read more