282 If It Is To Be…

The first time you set out to write a book /exercise /learn something

you get no encouragement other than traditional family and friends.

And only that one time.

You are completely on your own to continue or not.

It’s your choice to write that book /lift those weights /diet etc.

To achieve anything important to you, you must decide to do this by yourself, no matter what.

A book has over 300 pages. Each one written (and re-written!) because you say so and not because anyone else is truly encouraging you … again, other than loyal family and friends.

And even they don’t unless you bring it up.

So why say this?

Because all too often we somehow look for someone or something to cause us to pass to action.

And that won’t happen, because…

If It Is To Be, It IS Up To Me

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