125 A Clumsy Self Image

I’m clumsy.
I’m ‘always’ making mistakes.
I’m etc. etc. etc.

OK let’s take clumsy.
First do you spill things every single time you touch them?
No? Every second time?
No? One time out of 10?
Maybe, sometimes.

You don’t really spill things more than once in a while. BUT you remember them as if they were all happening one after another.
There is no time between memories. Often people go “Ah! That answers my question. For years I’ve wondered why this and that …and now I have my answer.”
Exactly, there is no time between things in your head. So you stitch all ‘clumsys’ together and invent /create your Self Image.

OK, So you’re only a bit clumsy.
Well, I’ll bet you’re also a bit tired, a bit hungry, a bit bored, …a bit everything!
(Also a bit clumsy at creating an accurate Self Image!)

From now on notice just how many times — whatever it is that you don’t think well of yourself about — is happening.
Stop stitching them all together and you’ll stop building such a clumsy Self Image for yourself.

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