46 Always

Whenever something ‘always’ happens to you, relax. It means you are completely in charge of that situation.

Always late? Hmmm, let’s see now… From near or far, summer or winter, rush hour or not, alone or with others, and to various destinations, and you ‘all-ways’ manage to neutralize all the variables to arrive late.

Again.

Just managing on the income you have? Hmmm, let’s see now … gas prices go up, gas prices go down. Things go on sale, home appliances wear down and break. Cars need repairs. And so on. Yet you just, just manage to get by on your income.

Again.

NOT managing on the income you have? Hmmm, let’s see now… Are you always managing to be down a certain amount each month? Always averaging a certain amount down?

Again.

People always treating you a certain (un)acceptable way? Hmmm, let’s see now… that would be old people, young people, good people, people you hardly know, people with different backgrounds and so on. What do they all have in common? You. Always you. You are sooo flexible you can actually stay in the same state! You neutralize all the variables in an unconscious way. So unconscious, you don’t realize the subtleties of your own actions. Yet there’s simply no denying the repetitive-ness (and effectiveness!) of your own actions.

Again.

Choose one of the more obvious ‘always’ things in your life. Determine the benefit of continuing it. Then give yourself that benefit (without judging!) and that ‘always’ will vanish. (See # 45)

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These are related:

7 Disaster – 10 Progress It – 13 Changing Change – 27 Responses – 29 Who’s in Charge?

31 Being at-Cause – 33 Solving a 5 – 34 Thinking Positively Negative – 38 Carrier Wave

41 Elephants – 42 Leadership – 45 Problems – 60 Patterns – 63 Free Will –

75 Same