29 Who’s In Charge?

“I sit paying the bills and there’s never quite enough money at end of month. Thinking ‘I want more’ is different to feeling you have nothing, but how do you get rid of the fear things will get worse instead of better and the feeling of ‘lack’ apparently getting in the way of attracting more of what I want?”

So, here you are, having trouble paying bills with ABSOLUTELY NO consideration you feed your Ferris Wheel, so you get … exactly what you fed it!
No concept that you are now (and have always been!) in charge of your own future results.

You sit with the ‘evidence’ that your past actions cause today’s results, and automatically assume the future will be a duplicate of the present. Not accepting you are /were the one who decides and has decided this!

It’s this silent acceptance that yesterday’s actions are the only actions I’ll do today — so tomorrow will, for sure, be a repetition of today and yesterday… and the day before. We, in fact, even use this very repetition as some sort of ‘proof’ of our lack of power over events.

As I open the bills – again – I silently believe that ‘other-than-me’ is causing this, again.

First understand YOU are the one who causes your own events.

You are in charge. Then (and only then!) can it change.

* If it’s not-you doing it, then it has to be not-you that changes it.

* If you cause it, you can change it.

Change little things, one at a time. NOT with the thick end of the wedge but the thin part.

It’s the cumulative that works, like it worked as you grew up. You accumulate skills, understandings, processes, etc over time.

It’s all you. You are in charge of your life. Completely.

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You only wish reading one Doodle would do it!
It’s a subconscious cross-index of select different Doodles
to ‘side-step’ your filters, that gets you what you want.
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To reinforce this, read at least 2 below: If you Read only one

1 Ferris Wheel – 7 Disaster – 10 Progress It – 11 Feedback – 22 Attitude

28 Getting What I Want! – 31 Being at-Cause – 32 Red Light, Green Light

34 Thinking Positively Negative – 37 Or Its Equivalent – 38 Carrier Wave – 41 Elephants

42 Leadership – 43 Desire – 45 Problems – 46 Always – 57 Helicopter – 58 Needs