A statement is a close-ended thing. “I can’t do this.” A question is open-ended. ‘Why can’t I do this?’ “I don’t know how to.” ‘How do I learn to?’ One keeps you where you are, the other gets you where you want to go. “This is my best.” “How can I improve?” … Read more
There are two types of Security. Internal and External. Internal Security exists when you believe you can ‘create’ something. External Security comes when you take comfort from things around you and ‘appearances’. (ie: Clothes, furniture, flashy car, etc.) I am Internally Secure and married an Externally Secure person. We have gone through ‘Security’ … Read more
Taxi drivers in New York City are a realistic bunch. To drive in one of the busiest cities in the world, you do what works. And what doesn’t waste time. Or unnecessary motion. They signal their intent to change lanes and then proceed to do so. Yes there are cars in the other lane, … Read more
This one needs your participation to be effective. Pay close attention to your answers. (Ideally, jot them down on the print-out.) The first thing that comes to mind IS your ‘programming’ Complete the following: (Play the game = get the results!) I’d have more money if __________________________________ Money equals _________________________________________ People with money are ___________________________________ … Read more
All singers singing the same song use the same words. The same notes. Yet one singer is far more popular than another. Obviously it’s the difference that person adds in their interpretation of the same song, with the same words and the same notes. Is your job /situation the same as another … Read more
People want Luxury in their lives, but not waste. And there’s your problem. “13 Bathrooms?? What a waste!” “40 acres! What do you do with all that land? If you aren’t farming, it’s a waste of good land.” YET: How many televisions do you have in your house? How many chairs? … Read more