There are no one-way streets. There can’t be. Any more than stairs that only go up. Or Uphill without Downhill. / Ok, so? We usually interpret what people say /do in just One Way. And re-enforce our conclusions, once again. Which is fine, …unless things are not working as well as you wish with … Read more
Physical Pushups & Sit-ups ‘prepare’ you for sports /physical activity. Mental Pushups & Sit-ups prepare you for Situations. Mental = Solving problem’s as if they were yours. A friend and I would always try to ‘improve’ the restaurant while we waited in line. (Hmmm, maybe if they cleared the tables faster, or presented the … Read more
Here is a technique I find very useful for me. I created three ‘voices’ in my head: Voice 1 always tries to agree with me Voice 2 tries to never agree. Voice 3 is the contrary one. So if — at noon — I make a strong statement “It is daytime now.” Voice 1 … Read more
If you misplace a physical object, (ie: Car keys, glasses, wallet, etc.) the best way to find it is to repeat the name of the object you are looking for, over and over, as you search. “Keys, keys, keys…” This actually helps focus the mind and increases concentration and perception. If you have ‘lost’ a … Read more
The past week has proven stressful for me because most of what I am trying to do is out of my control. I realize this and have stopped trying to do useless things regarding this situation. I play games instead. Sudoku, in fact. Ok, so? Well, Sudoku is a fairly predictable and controllable game. … Read more
These are rated the widest /broadest impact on… YOU Most of you joined this group after these were written. Take time to see what you’re missing. (Think of a current problem, then Use your intuition on which will ‘help’ you most, and, …don’t be surprised when it works! PLEASE pass it on.) * … Read more