230 Total

“Oh, I can’t approach him, he just got a raise.”

Everyone ADDS each event to all previous events and bases their response on the total:

* He is furious because the raise came too little and too late, … once again!

* He is now silently looking for another opportunity.

“I want to tell you how happy I am about my new raise/promotion.”

Phooey, I can’t approach him.

Do you know how many friends ask him if they could get a job at his place.

He’d be pleased to give a referral.

I admire people’s ability to handle what I can’t.

Or remain encouraged with something that would discourage me.

They experience the same event as I, but add to a different past series and respond to that total.

Stop stopping yourself because of your total.

It’s their total they act on, not yours.

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To reinforce this read any two below:

#  3 Cumulative Knowledge – 14 Eliminating Triggers – 18 Being Triggered

20 The ‘Gift’ of Knowledge – 21 Interpretation – 22 Attitude – 25 How Old are You?

27 Responses – 35 One + One = Two! – 46 Always –  103 Ring Knock Part 2

105 Silent Additions