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73 Killing Frogs

admin · October 5, 2008 ·

Do you know how to kill a frog? Most people think by placing a frog in boiling water you can kill it. But it just jumps out. The way to kill a frog is to place it in ordinary water and heat it so slowly there’s never a time when the change is so dramatic the frog makes a decision. It simply stays and boils to death. Having a job /marriage where conditions deteriorate every year or your income doesn’t match the economy, or progress is so slow you never do something about it… That’s how you kill a person! Step back and take a look at those things you’re not satisfied with. How did they get there?

One bit at a time. One action at a time. One decision at a time. One drink at a time.

Now is the time for you to take a great step in that situation. Enough of justifications that say, “I’ll give it more time and something will change /happen.” No it won’t. It’s a new day. It got here one second at a time. Take one thing that you want to change and do it now! It’s OK to ‘overreact’ just once. It won’t be, but from your view — too much patience — it’ll seem that way. ————————– These are related: 1 Ferris Wheel – 3 Cumulative Knowledge – 22 Attitude – 30 Ever-changing Relationships 31 Being at-Cause – 35 One + One = Two! – 48 Saying No – 50 Limits – 59 Hesitation 71 Nice – 102 Response-ability – 103 Ring/Knock Part 2

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72 Technique

admin · October 5, 2008 · 1 Comment

All of us use various techniques to solve each of our problems.
Just look at all the techniques to diet or stop smoking, for example.

What’s not so well known is you think by using a technique ‘you’ are not really solving the problem. The technique is doing the solving. And that’s not good enough.
So what you then do is go back to having that very same problem.
And you get discouraged.

Realize your decision to return to having that problem comes from your need to solve it by yourself and you won’t be so discouraged.
You see, you really need to know the problem can be solved.
That’s first. And you use a technique to do so.

Now you know you can solve it, you give it back to yourself so that ‘you’ can solve it.
By yourself.
Without techniques.
Once you decide that, you can actually use a technique. Then it’s OK!
(You might want to read the above again!)

That this is exactly how it happens should prevent you from getting discouraged the next time something happens, again!

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These are related:

12 Change – 41 Elephants – 44 After – 45 Problems – 46 Always – 52 Correct Decisions

64 Natural Talents – 76 Increasing Awareness – 78 Process – 94 Increasing Vitality – 95 Ring/Knock

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66 Opposites

admin · October 5, 2008 · 2 Comments

It’s literally impossible to build a staircase that goes only up. Or only down.
It is impossible to construct a street that goes only one way.
Oh, you can attach a sign that says one-way travel, but it itself allows both ways.

So it is with absolutely everything!
How do you know this / is ‘uphill’ unless you understand it’s also ‘downhill’.
Here, let me take away the ‘uphill’ part: ___
Oops! I’ve also taken away downhill at-the-same-time.

The ONLY way we can understand something is by also understanding/seeing its opposite.

So it is with you and your current success /failure.
You can not know success or failure unless you also understand its opposite.
To know you’re failing is to know what success is and to see you’re not doing that.
(To know success is to know failure and see you’re not doing that!)

The end result is you already know what to do to succeed in every case you can see you’re a failure.
Otherwise you would not be able to identify that you’re a failure. Because failure as compared to what! It’s only uphill or downhill as compared to its opposite.

When faced with failure, remember you already know exactly what to do to succeed and it is in you. Let answers come to you from your memory of what you already know the opposite is.

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These are related:

3 Cumulative Knowledge – 7 Disaster – 21 Interpretation – 52 Correct Decisions – 59 Hesitation

78 Process – 83 Being Wrong – 87 Barriers – 90 Good/Bad – 93 Heaven & Hell

97 Variety – 100 Ransom Notes

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65 Wealth

admin · October 5, 2008 · Leave a Comment

If you do something you don’t like to do, you’ll invariably fail at it.
Why?
If you succeed you end up doing even more of what you don’t want!
This creates conflict among your filters /programs so you end up neutral. (Read: NON effective)

To determine if what you’re doing is purely for money, ask yourself:
“If I were wealthy would I be here, doing this?”
If the answer is NO, you are doing it for money.

I even asked myself this waiting at a traffic light (on a rainy day in Vancouver about 35 years ago!) I remember to this day: “Yes, I would be here doing this. Because I want to get the results of this effort, I’ll pay the price of this activity.”

So you see the answer is not as simple as it seems.
IF all I’m doing is for money, then I won’t get it. (Reality check: Have you?)
However if it’s a necessary step to get what I truly want, I’ll do it.

That’s the other part of wealth. Being willing to do whatever it takes to get where you want, knowing when you get there, you do NOT have to repeat what you did to get there.

That simple question, “If I were wealthy would I be here, doing this?” asked in every situation, on every occasion, is a ‘trigger’ to clarify your wants and needs regarding wealth.
It speeds your success.

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These are related:

28 Getting What I Want! – 43 Desire – 44 After – 50 Limits – 58 Needs – 73 Killing Frogs

74 Dictating Your Miracle – 82 Limitations – 98 Third Time

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46 Always

admin · October 5, 2008 · 2 Comments

Whenever something ‘always’ happens to you, relax. It means you are completely in charge of that situation.

Always late? Hmmm, let’s see now… From near or far, summer or winter, rush hour or not, alone or with others, and to various destinations, and you ‘all-ways’ manage to neutralize all the variables to arrive late.

Again.

Just managing on the income you have? Hmmm, let’s see now … gas prices go up, gas prices go down. Things go on sale, home appliances wear down and break. Cars need repairs. And so on. Yet you just, just manage to get by on your income.

Again.

NOT managing on the income you have? Hmmm, let’s see now… Are you always managing to be down a certain amount each month? Always averaging a certain amount down?

Again.

People always treating you a certain (un)acceptable way? Hmmm, let’s see now… that would be old people, young people, good people, people you hardly know, people with different backgrounds and so on. What do they all have in common? You. Always you. You are sooo flexible you can actually stay in the same state! You neutralize all the variables in an unconscious way. So unconscious, you don’t realize the subtleties of your own actions. Yet there’s simply no denying the repetitive-ness (and effectiveness!) of your own actions.

Again.

Choose one of the more obvious ‘always’ things in your life. Determine the benefit of continuing it. Then give yourself that benefit (without judging!) and that ‘always’ will vanish. (See # 45)

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These are related: 7 Disaster – 10 Progress It – 13 Changing Change – 27 Responses – 29 Who’s in Charge?

31 Being at-Cause – 33 Solving a 5 – 34 Thinking Positively Negative – 38 Carrier Wave

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