287 One

Caution: this one requires your active /mental participation!   Imagine you have: * A Paper Computer that can solve only ONE problem… What ONE problem do you want it to solve? (Play the game = get the results)   * A Magic Box What would you like to find in it. (Any ONE thing!) (Play the … Read more

246 Environment

You create your environment. By choosing which restaurant or by staying in one you didn’t choose. Not long, and you are influenced by this environment. Either way.   Same with literally every other Environment. Keeping pictures which remind you of ‘sad’ or ‘happy’ times. Planning every detail of a wedding day. Not long, and you … Read more

243 The 98%

In a very nice hotel while on African safari, there was a sign on my dresser top that said ‘Thou Shall Not Tempt.’   And I realized that everyone, everywhere are only human. No matter what you do, 1% of the people will ignore you and take what they want. At the other end, 1% will never … Read more

230 Total

“Oh, I can’t approach him, he just got a raise.” Everyone ADDS each event to all previous events and bases their response on the total: * He is furious because the raise came too little and too late, … once again! * He is now silently looking for another opportunity.   “I want to tell you how … Read more

229 Security

There are two types of Security. Internal and External.   Internal Security exists when you believe you can ‘create’ something. External Security comes when you take comfort from things around you and ‘appearances’. (ie: Clothes, furniture, flashy car, etc.)   I am Internally Secure and married an Externally Secure person. We have gone through ‘Security’ … Read more