There are 24 hours in a day. Everyday. The % of time you devote to create your future = the % probability you’ll have that future. One hour a day is a tremendous amount of time. First eliminate the ‘constants’ 8 hours sleep 2 hours eat/groom 2 hours travel 8 hours work … Read more
When I go to a movie I allow this ‘External Illusion’ to dominate me. I laugh, cry, etc. After, I might even comment on it with friends. For a time. But I know this ‘External Illusion’ is not my reality. Just like a movie, dramas are created by others (family, friends) over a great … Read more
This one needs a lot of help to execute. Look at the related Doodles. They’ll help get you out of Stage 3 ————————————————————- The owner of a 50 year old, multi-billion dollar company described to me the Stages his company goes through. 1 Initial Stage Create and Build 2 Automatic Stage Manage 3 Choice Stage … Read more
They asked a bunch of people to decide whether to do something or not. Then divided them into two groups: Those who said “YES do it.” Those who said “NO don’t.” Later they gave BOTH groups the same new, updated ‘results’: the thing went wrong. And what would they now suggest. The YES group (almost 100%!) … Read more
It makes no difference. None at all. If the light is out for one second or one year it makes no difference in the effort required to turn it back on. If you have been mad at someone for a short or long time, it’s the same effort to change that situation. We … Read more
Often people polarize things into Do /Don’t — Yes /No — Right /Wrong, … annnd, you’re for me or you’re against me. That’s one of the major causes of conflicts, both inter-personal and inter-national. These are the brittle good/bad reactions that accompany the inexperienced (aka: nouveau riche or nouveau powerful … or nouveau parents!) Every time … Read more