Taxi drivers in New York City are a realistic bunch. To drive in one of the busiest cities in the world, you do what works. And what doesn’t waste time. Or unnecessary motion. They signal their intent to change lanes and then proceed to do so. Yes there are cars in the other lane, … Read more
Not being in control of something does not mean it’s out of control. It simply means you are not the one doing the controlling. Take the Internet. No one ‘controls’ it. Yet it is not out of control. In fact it’s not anything. Like a multi-billion page book, to be used anyway you choose. Your … Read more
All too often we forget just how ritual-istic Compliments are. Especially if an ‘inferior’ pays a compliment to a ‘superior’ (ie: Child to Parent) What would they know. Or ‘superior’ to ‘inferior’. (ie: Boss to Employee) He’s just being kind because of his position. We almost never, as equals, trade compliments. So how … Read more
They are the same thing. To not Apologize /Forgive someone is to indicate you have a reason not to. My friend never forgave her husband for doing something really stupid. – She wanted him to leave her. My wife forgave me from Change water love. Finish online non prescription pharmacy item sweat wish at frizz. … Read more
We stood and formed two rows, as asked. “Now give each other a sincere compliment.” Fat chance that’s going to work, I thought. How could anyone believe a compliment was serious if it was ‘planned’. Yet after looking at me for a minute the guy opposite me said, “I like your tie.” Hmmm, had he … Read more
Wenn Du in jeder Situation in immer wieder exakt der gleichen Art reagierst, dann reagierst du nicht auf ein Ereignis, sondern du etablierst Gleichheit, d.h. Kontrolle. Nun, das ist sehr gut, wenn es eine Einstellung zur Problemlösung ist. Aber nicht so effektiv, wenn es jedes Mal ein herzliches Lachen, ein breites Lächeln, maßlose Höflichkeit oder … Read more