Habits

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312 Six Years

admin · December 2, 2012 · 2 Comments

I started these Doodles exactly 6 years ago.
One by one.
Now I have enough to fill a 300+ page book.

However, my book on
Silent Partner: Your Subconscious Mind is only ten or so pages done.
Yet it’s my expertise and, … I started it about 5 years ago.
The difference is I want the Subconscious book to be really, really good.
So I made sure I did nothing bad ( = or good!)

Writing anything is better than writing nothing
because it gives me something to correct/improve.

From now on I will actually write a page a day.
Within a year it will be done.

You know I’m talking about You, right?

(To truly help yourself,
choose just one below and read it.
You’ll be surprised at how well this works!)

These are Related:

# 1 Ferris Wheel – 10 Progress It – 24 The Wedge – 32 Red Light, Green light – 42 Leadership
67 Personal Nag – 73 Killing Frogs – 117 Gold Mine – 122 Real! – 126 Red Light – 127 Not-Me
185 First, Get Alive – 201 One by One – 223 One Hour – 282 If It Is To Be… – 293 Life

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308 Red

admin · August 12, 2012 · Leave a Comment

You are being completely ignored in the very things that are important to you.

And I can prove it!

Imagine a large, white, square cardboard.

What do you look at?

Nothing. Maybe the outside edges.

Now, splash a large dot of Red paint on it.

Now, what do you look at.

Why the Red paint of course.

Splash more and more Red paint on it.

Now what do you look at.

Hmmm, possibly the patterns made by the difference between the Red and the white background.

Splash even more Red.

Now you look at the single white space left on the board.

And you ignore the Red.

That’s what happens when you keep on mentioning the same important-to-you thing over and over.

Soon you are ignored.

What background noise is happening right now, as you read this?

Until I cause you to think about it, it is invisible /ignored.

Be careful. I love you. Watch out. It’s a conspiracy. etc.

All ignored.

To avoid being ignored, say those things less often.

And you will be less ignored.

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These are related:

# 73 Killing Frogs – 79 Truth Time – 86 Don’t be Yourself! – 92 Strength – 96 Habits

104 Power – 162 Consider the Source – 169 Scaffold – 206 A Good Time – 218 Something

291 Reverse – 301 How to Stop – 306 Parent-ing

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306 Parent-ing

admin · August 12, 2012 · Leave a Comment

Parents in China are all extremely well respected. And obeyed.

After all, they know best. Years and years of experience, etc.

Their economy is growing 3 times faster than almost all other economies.

Sure they are approximately at our 1960 level.

But at 3 times the speed, each 10 years they grow 30 years.

The parents are the baby sitters for their children’s child.

And teach the child the old, proven, reliable ways of thought and action.

By the time the child reaches 20 years old, 60 years of economic growth will have happened.

When you think of how long ago the parents learned their learnings…

You are looking at a family disaster (or ‘revolution’) in the near future.

Obvious to you and me.

Yet how hard are you trying to do the very same thing to your family?

Oh, I see your case is different.

Really!??

Relax, and let things take care of themselves. (see # 169 Scaffold)

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These are related:

# 20 The ‘Gift’ of Knowledge – 21 Interpretation – 37 Or Its Equivalent – 63 Free Will

79 Truth Time – 104 Power – 113 Success – 140 Making Progress – 162 Consider the Source

219 Control – 227 Long Hair, Short Hair – 233 Input – 269 Circle

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303 Brutus

admin · August 12, 2012 · Leave a Comment

Did you ever have an imaginary dog your parents said would keep you safe.

And it would either lie on your bed or under it.

It /you would fight the imaginary monsters or fear of the dark with it.

My children named theirs Brutus.

And, almost like magic, they were far easier to get to bed.

I always wonder how /why that works when ‘everyone’ knows it’s just an imaginary thing.

Then again so is the fear.

Ok, so?

Well, if you currently have fears /worry etc…

Create an imaginary Brutus to attack unwanted thoughts.

You would be surprised at how quickly this trains your mind to stop useless, repetitive thinking.

Too simple to even try it?

Really?

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These are related:

# 7 Disaster – 8 Problem Solving – 11 Feedback – 27 Responses – 68 Concentration

72 Technique – 194 F.E.A.R.

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302 Party Time

admin · August 12, 2012 · Leave a Comment

How hard we work planning a Party!

And really pay attention to every detail.

Almost cold and calculated.

Yet we have fun when it’s happening.

OK, sooo?

Well you can actually ‘plan’ your fun /happiness too.

Without throwing a Party.

When you feel low /depressed etc.

Simply think of three different things /events that made /make you smile.

Hold each thought for one or two seconds.

That’s it.

It takes a while to ‘train’ your mind (sic: Prepare for the Party)

but soon enough your mind is doing this by ‘itself’

Artificial happiness?

No more than your Party.

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These are related:

# 6 Feed Yourself – 11 Feedback – 14 Eliminating Triggers – 96 Habits – 108 Emotions

176 “1 – 2 – 3”